It can be a tricky thing to identify when the one you're with is The One. One of my single mom gal pals confided in me she's in a relationship with someone she's "pretty sure" is the one, but there are some red flags.
I personally believe two things, and sometimes they contradict one another ... the first being, the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior, the second: the past doesn't equal the future.
So, which one do we use when we are deciding whether our potential future mate candidate is truly the one? What do you think?